from Chapter 6
From Combat to Harmony
Most of us have a relationship to the outside world based on conflict, the power struggle. It is quite tiring. One must always be on the alert. Could there be another way of doing things? That is exactly what we are going to learn in this chapter. To Move Toward . . .
or Distance Yourself From
Because of our characters and personal histories, each of us has a tendency either to move toward people, things, novelty or to move away from them.
None of us are all one or the other; we are one or the other depending on the context. For example, I am shy and have a...