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The Superior Wife Syndrome
Why Women Do Everything So Well and Why--for the Sake of Our Marriages--We've Got to Stop  
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"My husband is in charge of dinner only on
Friday night. And every single Friday
night, he calls me and says, 'What do you want
me to order for dinner?' " -- Toni

Sound familiar? You are not alone!
This book can help you and your marriage!

As women have risen in the work world, their marriages have been transformed, too. The wife has become the superior spouse; she is responsible for managing every aspect of the family's life, from financing the mortgage to picking what the kids wear to school. This book is for every wife who wonders why she's in charge of everything, while her husband lounges on the couch and watches the game. The Superior Wife Syndrome explains how she ended up like this and reveals how she can let go of her superiority and work her way back to marital equality.

Bringing together personal stories of everyday couples and expert social analysis, psychologist Carin Rubenstein provides readers with an intelligent and groundbreaking look into a disturbing marital trend: In two out of three marriages, women are running the show while men take it easy. As a result, more and more women are rejecting marriage as a viable social institution. The Superior Wife Syndrome provides a look into the heart of modern marriage, as it reveals and explores:


Six signs of superiority: from being the
multitasker to being the decider

Top twenty-six topics wives nag their
husbands about, from A to Z

Four types of modern marriage, from
Captain and Mates to Even-Stevens

Top ten sex wishes of husbands and wives
Twenty-one ways to fix a superior wife marriage

Filled with personal stories and packed with tips for breaking the pattern, The Superior Wife Syndrome gives women the tools they need to step down from their thrones, reconnect with their husbands, and have happier and healthier marriages.

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How did you come to write this book?

First, I lived it. Then, I wrote about it.

Learn more about Carin Rubenstein

"Rubenstein's stories of wives and husbands ring true and will surely resonate with many women who fi nd themselves taking on more than they expected to, getting less of the support and equality they planned on, and wondering how to get the pleasure they so hoped for in their marriages."

-- Dalma Heyn, author of The Erotic Silence of the American Wife and Marriage Shock: The Transformation of Women into Wives

"Any reader will find themselves identifying with Carin Rubenstein's 'state of modern marriage' -- if not themselves, then their parents or adult children. A wake-up call for marital evolution, if not revolution."

-- Gail Sheehy, author of Passages and Sex and the Seasoned Woman
Elle, September 10, 2009
...most of the housework, the home management, and the parenting). The latest arrival on the marriage-bashing bandwagon is Carin Rubenstein and her new book, The Superior Wife Syndrome (Touchstone). Having surveyed some 1,500 wives and husbands ...